Tuesday, January 31, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Lord Hath Performed His Whole Work

2 Nephi 20:12
Wherefore it shall come to pass that when the Lord hath performed his whole work upon Mount Zion and upon Jerusalem, I will punish the fruit of the stout heart of the king of Assyria, and the glory of his high looks.

I can be part of His work by seeking His peace

Take a Problem to the Lord

From Mary F. Foulger's October 1980 "Motherhood and tbe Family":
"Friends coming into the house sometimes asked me 'What is your mother doing?' I would say, 'She is taking a problem to the Lord.'"

Maybe I could try more deliberately to stop and take my problem to the Lord.

Another Funny Dream

I was going into a room to make some copies, but had to wait for a couple young men to finish, first. I could tell they were using a fake access card to make their copies. I said something that made a reference to fake access cards without actually accusing them of having a fake access card. One of the boys felt convicted in his heart, and wrote his name on a piece of paper and showed it to me. I made him look me in the eyes, and then I told him that it was ok, and that I loved him, and then I let him go.

TFHW: Better Now

1-30-23
Improved place names
Held FHE
Asked Iran if he had family names for the temple

Monday, January 30, 2023

Funny Dream

Two guys were harassing me and interfering with a very simple project I was trying to do. Instead of getting mad, I looked them in the eyes, one at a time, seeing them, and said I was sorry your life is so hard, and that you are hurting so much. I knew they only behaved the way they did because something was broken inside them. I wanted them to know that another human being saw that.

They seemed confused and afraid. My anger they would've understood, but not sincere empathy. The Holy Ghost was palpable, and they seemed both terrified, yet also a tiny bit hopeful that someone was really, actually seeing them for perhaps the first time in their lives.

I finished by saying - slowly, quietly, peacefully, and completely at the behest of the Spirit - "I know that if Jesus Christ were here right now, he would say" (at this point, a mesmerized bystander, thinking I was aiming to hurt, said "I hate you") - "I love you".

I left the room, feeling filled and electrified by the Spirit, and thinking to myself that I should always act that way. And I offered a prayer of thanksgiving for the miracle of kindness I had just been involved in.

Daily Ponderings: His Hand Is Stretched Out Still

3 Nephi 19:21
Manasseh, Ephraim; and Ephraim, Manasseh; they together shall be against Judah. For all this his anger is not turned away, but his hand is stretched out still.

No matter how I feel, He will always help me when I ask

Choose My Hard

No matter what I choose, it'll be hard. Might as well choose the hard that will actually make me happy.

TFHW: Snow Buddy

1-29-23
Cleared snow with Joshua

Sunday, January 29, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Prophet That Teacheth

2 Nephi 19:15
The ancient, he is the head; and the prophet that teacheth lies, he is the tail.

I should listen to the words of prophets and let them fill my soul with peace.

TFHW: Snow Rolling

1-28-23
Went to the store in the snow

Saturday, January 28, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Lord Sent His Word

2 Nephi 19:8
The Lord sent his word unto Jacob and it hath lighted upon Israel.

I should listen for the word He sends to me. In peace is the best way for me to receive it

TFHW: Birthday!

1-27-23
Emailed Roy for his birthday
Shoveled driveway, decorated hedge, made snowman, and threw snowballs with family

Friday, January 27, 2023

Daily Ponderings: They Shall Look

2 Nephi 18:22
And they shall look unto the earth and behold trouble, and darkness, dimness of anguish, and shall be driven to darkness.

I should have the faith necessary to look to Him for the peace and strength I need.

TFHW: Sometimes Being There Is Enough

1-26-23
Tried to help Br. Allgaier
Attended Kitten's class with the missionaries

Thursday, January 26, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Among Them

2 Nephi 18:15
And many among them shall stumble and fall, and be broken, and be snared, and be taken.

I should strive to be among them that seek His peace

TFHW: A Big Helper

1-25-23
Helped Joshua with his homework
Helped Br. Allgaier
Signed up for Kittens religion class

Wednesday, January 25, 2023

Daily Ponderings: His Wings Shall Fill

2 Nephi 18:8
And he shall pass through Judah; he shall overflow and go over, he shall reach even to the neck; and the stretching out of his wings shall fill the breadth of thy land, O Immanuel.

He loves me and He will help me obtain every needful thing

What Matters to Him

From Dieter F. Uchtdorf's October 2011 "You Matter to Him":
"What mattered to Him was that I was doing the best I could, that my heart was inclined toward Him, and that I was willing to help those around me."

Inclined towards Him - that I immediately choose empowering beliefs based in Him to help me fix misalignments.

TFHW: Helping and Being There

1-24-23
Attended Kitten's zoom class
Got movie at library
Vacuumed Snowberry
Helped Br. Allgaier with family history
Went birding at lake shore (didn't see eagle's nest at corner of Superior and Pryor

Tuesday, January 24, 2023

Actually, Easier

If I do the things He asks me to do - that seem like they will slow down my progress - I will actually progress easier

Strengthen My Connection

To strengthen my connection to Him means it's harder for me to be pulled away from Him, which means I have learned more or better empowering beliefs

Empowering Belief

An empowering belief is one that makes me feel more willing and able to act to change to improve my life

Source of Power

The power I get from obedience is fueled by the energy I'm no longer exerting to resist His commandment

Limit of Belief

Theory: every disempowering belief actually just a limitation on an empowering belief. So all fear contains the seed of an empowering belief.

Daily Ponderings: There Shall Not Come Thither the Fear

2 Nephi 17:25
And all hills that shall be digged with the mattock, there shall not come thither the fear of briers and thorns; but it shall be for the sending forth of oxen, and the treading of lesser cattle.

If I ask Him for help, I don't have to live with fear.

Daily Ponderings: Those Things Do

Philippians 4:9
Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.

Empowering belief: do these things, and I will have peace.

TFHW: Word to the Wise

1-23-23
Texted TFH council
Emailed siblings
FHE

Monday, January 23, 2023

Defining Faith in Christ

These are the empowering beliefs:

He's wiser than me
He's more powerful than me
He's here with me
He knows me
He loves me
He can help me
He wants me to be happy
He will answer my prayers in the way that is best for me
I can become more like Him

Daily Ponderings: The Lord Shall Bring Upon Thee

2 Nephi 17:17
The Lord shall bring upon thee, and upon thy people, and upon thy father’s house, days that have not come from the day that Ephraim departed from Judah, the king of Assyria.

He has good gifts to give me if I ask for them.

Revelation on Peace

When pondering on peace, I was told "You can hear my voice anytime. It's your voice. We are not separate"

Alignment

Pondering on the power of spiritual alignment. What is to be aligned? My words, my belief in those words, and my acceptance of the prerequisites and consequences

In alignment, there is usually a moving part and a stationary part. My will to God's will.

Although I always fear He will ask me to do something unbearable, I cannot think of a time when He did. I should be able to trust that He never will.

Why Do You Believe?

From Jay Gowen's January 2023 Liahona "Essential Family Conversations":
"...[conversations that lead us] to know not only what they believe, but most important, why they believe it."

Do I know why my ministering families believe?

TFHW: Always Questions

1-22-23
Found the 20 Family History questions
Had a conversation with Greg Cook about Patrick Lange
Asked Joshua to help Patrick get settled in with the deacons
Talked briefly with Carl Stay about moving TFH work forward
Had Iran ask us if he could go to the temple with us again soon
Had idea to talk Waukesha TFH leader

Sunday, January 22, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Be Established

2 Nephi 17:9
And the head of Ephraim is Samaria, and the head of Samaria is Remaliah’s son. If ye will not believe surely ye shall not be established.

I should seek to become as He is and stand in the places He would stand.

TFHW: It's a Start

1-21-23
Sent Gathering Israel Newsletter to Br. Craig
Uploaded conversion story to FamilySearch

Saturday, January 21, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Holy Seed Shall Be the Substance Thereof

2 Nephi 16:13
But yet there shall be a tenth, and they shall return, and shall be eaten, as a teil tree, and as an oak whose substance is in them when they cast their leaves; so the holy seed shall be the substance thereof.

I should try to have as much of me as possible, be like Him. That starts with staying aligned with His peace.

There are only two sourcces of power (the ability to cause change): peace and anger. Only one works in the long run. I always have the choice.

TFHW: Two-fer

1-20-23
Went to the temple for baptisms, did a solo endowment, bought books for family at Glenview Library
Helped make Joshua cookies
Played Big Year Game
Invited posterity

Friday, January 20, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Hear Ye Indeed

2 Nephi 16:9
And he said: Go and tell this people—Hear ye indeed, but they understood not; and see ye indeed, but they perceived not.

I should listen to His voice after seeking His peace, then do what He says, and notice if it makes me happy.

TFHW: Fix It in Post

1-19-23
Helped Kitten compose an email to the stake Went to Kitten's TFHW training with the missionaries

Thursday, January 19, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Mine Eyes Have Seen the King

2 Nephi 16:5
Then said I: Wo is unto me! for I am undone; because I am a man of unclean lips; and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; for mine eyes have seen the King, the Lord of Hosts.

I know His peace is possible to me. I have felt it.

Joy

A attention-catching phrase from "The Fountainhead", ostensibly about architecture, but which could apply to nearly any personal passion:
"...a crusade and a consecration to a joy that justifies the existence of the earth"

Adam fell that men might be, and men are, that they might have joy. In our theology, joy does, indeed, justify the existence of the earth.

TFHW: Lotsa Numbers

1-18-23
Helped Joshua with homework while Kitten went to the temple
Made dinner

Wednesday, January 18, 2023

By Right or by Permission

From "The Fountainhead":
"My dear fellow, who will let you?"
"That's not the point. The point is, who will stop me?"

Daily Ponderings: In the Heavens Thereof

2 Nephi 15:30
And in that day they shall roar against them like the roaring of the sea; and if they look unto the land, behold, darkness and sorrow, and the light is darkened in the heavens thereof.

I should seek heaven by asking for His peace to fill me at the first sign of tension.

TFHW: A Lot of Colonials

1-17-23
Improved place names
Made soup with family

Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Unto the Wise

2 Nephi 15:21
Wo unto the wise in their own eyes and prudent in their own sight!

I should be wise by seeking His peace in a deep and fundamental way.

TFHW: Persistence

1-16-23
Proofread Kitten's email
Fetched "The Miracle Worker"(1962)
Held FHE

Monday, January 16, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Rise Up Early in the Morning

2 Nephi 15:11
Wo unto them that rise up early in the morning, that they may follow strong drink, that continue until night, and wine inflame them!

I should start my day with scriptures, prayer, and peace.

Move Forward Confidently

From Spencer W. Kimball's October 1980 "Do Not Weary in the Way"
"Let us more fully and confidently go ahead and meet the problems that beset us. Let us move forward confidently, not with halting steps, but steadily..."

I can imagine myself in power pose if I am feeling timid

Answer in the Way That Is Best

From Dallin H. Oaks's April 1994 "Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ"
"...the Lord knows more than we do and... he will answer our prayers in the way that is best for us..."

This is the empowering belief that defines faith in Jesus Christ

TFHW: Far Away

1-15-23
Watched Janessa give a talk
Texted Sarah

Sunday, January 15, 2023

Daily Ponderings: A Covert from Storm

2 Nephi 14:6
And there shall be a tabernacle for a shadow in the daytime from the heat, and for a place of refuge, and a covert from storm and from rain.

When I feel sad, I can turn to Him and find peace at the first sign of misalignment.

TFHW: Council Action

1-14-23
Read annotated blessings of TFHW
Went to the temple to do initiatory
Texted TFH council
Called Bev Lemmon, who wants to have a Pioneer Day ward event, under the auspices of TFH (Pioneer Day July 24th - We're All Pioneers)

Saturday, January 14, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Upon All the Glory of Zion Shall Be a Defence

2 Nephi 14:5
And the Lord will create upon every dwelling-place of mount Zion, and upon her assemblies, a cloud and smoke by day and the shining of a flaming fire by night; for upon all the glory of Zion shall be a defence.

I don't have to suffer even a moment. The second I notice misalignment, I can seek His peace, and be healed, strengthened, and empowered.

TFHW: New York!

1-13-23
Improved place names
Sewed velcro onto Joshua's watchband
Played Joshua's bird game

Friday, January 13, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Every One That Is Written

2 Nephi 14:3
And it shall come to pass, they that are left in Zion and remain in Jerusalem shall be called holy, every one that is written among the living in Jerusalem

I should take the time to write my thoughts.

TFHW: Comfort

1-12-23
Soothed Joshua when He was frustrated with his homework
Went to look for birds, stopped at Costco and library
Gave Joshua a blessing

Daily Ponderings: By the Spirit

2 Nephi 14:4
When the Lord shall have washed away the filth of the daughters of Zion, and shall have purged the blood of Jerusalem from the midst thereof by the spirit of judgment and by the spirit of burning.

I should seek to live by the Spirit, starting with keeping His peace with me at all times, and seeking to regain it the moment I notice it start to slip.

Thursday, January 12, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Shall Sit Upon

2 Nephi 13:26
And her gates shall lament and mourn; and she shall be desolate, and shall sit upon the ground.

I should seek to sit in the comfort of His peace

What CAN Be Done

From Marvin J. Ashton's October 1980 "Adversity and You":
"Winners set achievable goals day by day. Their plans consist of things that can be done, not what can't be done."

Do what I can, not what I can't

Make a Pearl

From Marvin J. Ashton's October 1980 "Adversity and You":
"If there are irritations in our lives today, there is only one prescription: make a pearl."

"Every adversity carries within it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit."

Reap Their Own Rewards

From Marvin J. Ashton's October 1980 "Adversity and You":
"We need not quarrel or compete with those who promote and encourage controversy. We need not spend our time in retaliation. They who would deceive, destroy, or belittle reap their own rewards."

I can be kind.

TFHW: Helping Hand

1-11-23
Helped Joshua with homework
Helped Br. Allgaier print out descendency list

Wednesday, January 11, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Being Zion

2 Nephi 13:17
Therefore the Lord will smite with a scab the crown of the head of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will discover their secret parts.

I should be kind to everyone, especially the unlovable and disagreeable

TFHW: Start Right

1-10-23
Held morning family prayer

Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Their Countenance Doth Witness

2 Nephi 13:9
The show of their countenance doth witness against them, and doth declare their sin to be even as Sodom, and they cannot hide it. Wo unto their souls, for they have rewarded evil unto themselves!

My face shows my joy or pain. I should let it be painted with joy by seeking His peace.

TFHW: Lagom

1-9-23
Shared Lagom book with Michael
Emailed Michael
Review TFH plan with Joshua
Did indexing
Corrected Joshua's math homework
Went to library at 8pm to fetch family's books

Monday, January 9, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Cease Ye From Man

2 Nephi 12:22
Cease ye from man, whose breath is in his nostrils; for wherein is he to be accounted of?

When I need advice, I should turn to Him first

Witness Unto Thee

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...they may witness unto thee [Heavenly Father]..."

It is not because He needs to hear it, it's that we need to know that we believe that it's important enough to us that we want to tell Him that it's who we are.

Focus Brings Joy

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"Focusing on the Savior and our covenants brings lasting joy!"

Focusing on Christ means feeling peace... His peace... which brings joy.

Peace in Times of Distress

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...brings peace and understanding to our hearts in times of distress"

This peace can come in times of even the mildest of distress. I don't have to wait for the pain to become unbearable to seek His help. I can ask at the first second that I notice even a tiny misalignment.

Remember v. Focus

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...willingness to focus on the Savior..."

The sacrament prayer asks me to remember, not to focus. It's like how being armed means I'm carrying a pistol in a holster, not that it's in my hand every moment

Prepare

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...I was preparing to partake of the sacrament..."

How do I prepare?

The same way I prepare for every day. Scriptures, prayer, pondering - seeking to make a connection and tune the strings of my soul to His perfect 440 Hz A

We Need Not Fear

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...we need not fear..."

The reason I need not fear is that I can have His peace anytime I ask.

Embracing Obedience

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...willingness to obey His commandments..."

"Obey" implies some resistance on my part. "Embrace" might be a better word and image.

Don't obey - embrace.

Learn His Will, Then Do It

From Kevin W. Pearson's October 2022 "Are You Still Willing?":
"...learn the will of the Lord and then do it. True discipleship leads to a fulness of joy."

There's a good chance it won't be something dramatic and spectacular. Odds are it'll just be something small and kind.

Sadness, Anger, Fear, and Peace

Sadness is focusing on past loss, anger is focusing on present loss, fear is focusing on future loss.

Peace is focusing on the absense of upper body muscular tension.

TFHW: A Little Talk

1-8-23
Read "Treasures of the Snow" to family
Asked by Br. Allgaier about more TFH stuff
Talked to Evan Wheeler about temple trip

Sunday, January 8, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Lord Alone Shall Be Exalted

2 Nephi 12:17
And the loftiness of man shall be bowed down, and the haughtiness of men shall be made low; and the Lord alone shall be exalted in that day.

He is the model I should set for myself if I want to be different than I am

How would Jesus look for a job?

TFHW: Missing in Action

1-7-23
Told Br. Allgaier that VA census records from 1800 were lost, but sent link to 1820 census
Told Br. Allgaier how to Google for census records on Family Search Gave pocketknife to Joshua

Saturday, January 7, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Upon All Pleasant Pictures

2 Nephi 12:16
And upon all the ships of the sea, and upon all the ships of Tarshish, and upon all pleasant pictures.

If I am struggling, calling to mind a pleasant image or memory can help me feel His peace

TFHW: Answering the Call

1-6-23
Proofread Kitten's TFHW email
Sent Gathering Israel email to Br. Quinney
Received call from Br. Allgaier regarding Ancestry.com account, and also VA census 1800 and 1820
Sent Br. Allgaier link to page for getting free Ancestry account

Friday, January 6, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Upon Every Fenced Wall

2 Nephi 12:15
And upon every high tower, and upon every fenced wall;

There is no place I can be where His peace can't reach me if I ask for it

TFHW: Fun and Games

1-5-23
Had good conversation with Ryan
Watched Avatar with family
Played Sorry and 5 Crowns and Uno Spin with family

Thursday, January 5, 2023

Daily Ponderings: They Worship

2 Nephi 12:8
Their land is also full of idols; they worship the work of their own hands, that which their own fingers have made.

I should declare His peace to be good and seek to let it fill me any time I don't feel it.

TFHW: Looking Better

1-4-23
Improved place names (mostly Manhattan)
Watched Avatar with family
Opened presents with family

Wednesday, January 4, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Liken the Words Unto You

2 Nephi 11:8
And now I write some of the words of Isaiah, that whoso of my people shall see these words may lift up their hearts and rejoice for all men. Now these are the words, and ye may liken them unto you and unto all men.

When I read the scriptures, I can find empowering ideas to ponder.

TFHW: Christmas Wrap-Up

1-3-23
Opened presents with family
Watched Avatar with family
Emailed Roy & Tom movie review

Tuesday, January 3, 2023

Daily Ponderings: And Power

2 Nephi 11:5
And also my soul delighteth in the covenants of the Lord which he hath made to our fathers; yea, my soul delighteth in his grace, and in his justice, and power, and mercy in the great and eternal plan of deliverance from death.

All power is the power to change. He will give me all the power I need if I first seek His peace.

Look for the Happiness

From Dieter F. Uchtdorf's April 2013 "Your Wonderful Journey Home":
"Look for the happiness... in every step of your journey"

Happiness is there. Always. But it only appears after I start looking for it. As does misery.

Psychological Visibility

From Dieter F. Uchtdorf's April 2013 "Your Wonderful Journey Home":
"He sees you not as the world sees you; He sees who you really are. He looks on your heart. And He loves you..."

He sees me. I should choose to see everyone I meet. Habitually.

TFHW: Next to Godliness

1-2-23
Cleaned birdfeeder
Emailed Roy
Emailed Patty
Emailed Michael
Shopped at two Targets with family
Played unwrapping game with family
Watched Avatar with family

Monday, January 2, 2023

Daily Ponderings: I Have Seen Him

2 Nephi 11:3
And my brother, Jacob, also has seen him as I have seen him; wherefore, I will send their words forth unto my children to prove unto them that my words are true. Wherefore, by the words of three, God hath said, I will establish my word. Nevertheless, God sendeth more witnesses, and he proveth all his words.

I should keep trying to see everyone I meet as a person, not an object

Safe Place

I need to carry a safe place in my head, when I can recharge, feel peace, and gain strength and power

Uncertainty and Fear

When you remove the uncertainty, the fear is gone.

Faith removes uncertainty

TFHW: Report on Activity

1-1-23
Spoke to Ward Council about TFHW
Bore testimony on youth temple trip
Helped Br. Rutowski with TFHW

Sunday, January 1, 2023

Daily Ponderings: May God Raise You

2 Nephi 10:25
Wherefore, may God raise you from death by the power of the resurrection, and also from everlasting death by the power of the atonement, that ye may be received into the eternal kingdom of God, that ye may praise him through grace divine. Amen.

If I seek for His peace, I will become infused with His power.

TFHW: Temple Talk

12-31-22
Texted Pr. Woolf to ask about his family history book
Bought Ryan candy, and DQ treats for all