Saturday, September 30, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Consecrated Priests and Teachers

Alma 15:13
And Alma established a church in the land of Sidom, and consecrated priests and teachers in the land, to baptize unto the Lord whosoever were desirous to be baptized.

My calling will help the teachers consecrate their work. He will show me what I need to do.

This I Know: Peace

Sometimes peace comes from the refusal to argue

TFHW: Reward

9-29-23
Got Kopps to celebrate Joshua's school performance

Friday, September 29, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Words That Thou Hast Taught

Alma 15:7
And he answered and said: Yea, I believe all the words that thou hast taught.

If I listen, I will be taught what I need to know.

This I Know: Time

There will always be time for His work. He will help me know how to proceed and keep me calm in the face of the adversary's harping.

TFHW: Temple!

9-28-23
Picked up Joshua from school
Went to temple for baptisms

Thursday, September 28, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Know the Cause of It

Alma 14:29
Now the people having heard a great noise came running together by multitudes to know the cause of it; and when they saw Alma and Amulek coming forth out of the prison, and the walls thereof had fallen to the earth, they were struck with great fear, and fled from the presence of Alma and Amulek even as a goat fleeth with her young from two lions; and thus they did flee from the presence of Alma and Amulek.

If things are not going the way I want, I can ask to know how to correct the situation.

This I Know: Goal

If I know what I need to learn, He can help me learn it.

TFHW: Everything's Better on a Stick

9-27-23
Picked up Joshua from Seminary
Took Joshua to school
Gas for van
Make pumpkins on a stick for Kitten

Wednesday, September 27, 2023

Daily Ponderings: I Have Power to Deliver

Alma 14:19
And it came to pass that the judge stood before them, and said: Why do ye not answer the words of this people? Know ye not that I have power to deliver you up unto the flames? And he commanded them to speak; but they answered nothing.

Whatever uncomfortable situation I am in, He can help me navigate it if I ask for His help

This I Know: Guidance

He can guide me into making my day a good one.

TFHW: Here and There

9-26-23
Dropped off books at library
Bought and installed new windshield wiper on van
Read scriptures to Kitten
Watched baking show

Tuesday, September 26, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Exercise the Power of God

Alma 14:10
And when Amulek saw the pains of the women and children who were consuming in the fire, he also was pained; and he said unto Alma: How can we witness this awful scene? Therefore let us stretch forth our hands, and exercise the power of God which is in us, and save them from the flames.

If I need to change my mind about something, He can give me the power to do it.

This I Know: Try Again

Failure isn't permanent. Because of Him, I can always try again.

TFHW: 10 Perfect Days

9-25-23
Walked around the block

Monday, September 25, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Search the Scriptures

Alma 14:1
And it came to pass after he had made an end of speaking unto the people many of them did believe on his words, and began to repent, and to search the scriptures.

I can find many answers in words that are already written.

This I Know: Hang on, It Will Get Better

He can help me stay steady during rough patches.

TFHW: Life Is a Game

9-24-23
Emailed Tom
Played Joshua's bird game
Walked around the block 3 times
Played Sorry and cribbage

Sunday, September 24, 2023

Lifting the Burden

2 Corinthians 4:6-10
"6 For God, who commanded the light to shine out of darkness, hath shined in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

7 But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.

8 We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;

9 Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;

10 Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body."

Down, but not out. Jesus keeps us from going out - we only go out if we feel like we're all alone. Feeling like I'm not alone frees me to focus on my blessings.

Even when the burden is not lifted, the weight of it can be lifted prior to the granting of the requested blessing.

Not Alone

2 Corinthians 1:3-7
"3 Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;

4 Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

5 For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ.

6 And whether we be afflicted, it is for your consolation and salvation, which is effectual in the enduring of the same sufferings which we also suffer: or whether we be comforted, it is for your consolation and salvation.

7 And our hope of you is stedfast, knowing, that as ye are partakers of the sufferings, so shall ye be also of the consolation."

Sufferings make us better comforters. That's why Christ suffered all - in case someone who suffered that particular one isn't available. He is the master key of comfort.

What is the difference between feeling like I'm the only one carrying a burden, and feeling like I'm not alone in carrying a burden? What difference does feeling "not alone" make, and why?

Psychological visibility...

""The ability to trust others and the ability to develop attachments are closely related," Svendsen notes. "Lack of trust produces a caution that undermines the immediacy that is so important in our attachment to others." In order to build meaningful connections, we have to have some basic level of trust. "People with low generalized trust do not necessarily view others as malicious, but rather as risky - as people who could hurt them," Svendsen points out, and "mistrust prevents you from reaching outside yourself." With loneliness as a likely result."

Someone who's been through what I've been through can be trusted not to hit the sore spots the trial has left, because he knows what they are and how to avoid them. He's safe.

Daily Ponderings: Not Written in This Book

Alma 13:31
And Alma spake many more words unto the people, which are not written in this book.

I should write down the most important words.

This I Know: Redemption

He will always make a way forward for me, and He can give me the courage to take it if I ask for His help

TFHW: Something New

9-23-23
Set up for party
Attended party
Danced with Kitten
Worked on pumpkin lights
Received new calling - Sunday School President

Saturday, September 23, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Day of Salvation Draweth Nigh

Alma 13:21
And now it came to pass that when Alma had said these words unto them, he stretched forth his hand unto them and cried with a mighty voice, saying: Now is the time to repent, for the day of salvation draweth nigh;

It's going to get better. He can help me find a way forward.

This I Know: It Works

Faith works on my belief, not on the existence of something external to me. I don't know why. But not knowing why doesn't make it not work.

TFHW: Very Little Things

9-22-23
Invited Ryan to breakfast
Watched baking show
Worked on pumpkin lights

Friday, September 22, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Called After This Holy Order

Alma 13:11
Therefore they were called after this holy order, and were sanctified, and their garments were washed white through the blood of the Lamb.

I can be kind. He can help me know how.

This I Know: Hope

I can find optimism if I ask for His help

TFHW: Shared Experience

9-21-23 Watched baking show
Asked Kitten about her conversation with Ryan

Thursday, September 21, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Let Us Enter Into the Rest of God

Alma 12:37
And now, my brethren, seeing we know these things, and they are true, let us repent, and harden not our hearts, that we provoke not the Lord our God to pull down his wrath upon us in these his second commandments which he has given unto us; but let us enter into the rest of God, which is prepared according to his word.

He will fill me with His peace if I ask

This I Know: Relentless

The adversary relentlessly finds places to plant wedges between me and happiness. I don't have to accept them

TFHW: Taxi

9-20-23
Picked Joshua up from Seminary
Took Joshua to school

Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Daily Ponderings: If We Have Hardened Our Hearts

Alma 12:13
Then if our hearts have been hardened, yea, if we have hardened our hearts against the word, insomuch that it has not been found in us, then will our state be awful, for then we shall be condemned.

I should check to see if my heart is hard.

This I Know: Pondering

I can disagree with others without being condemned by God

TFHW: Little Bit at a Time

9-18-23
Took Joshua to school
Uploaded Gary's funeral reading to FamilySearch
Held FHE

Monday, September 18, 2023

Daily Ponderings: To Be Astonished

Alma 11:46
Now, when Amulek had finished these words the people began again to be astonished, and also Zeezrom began to tremble. And thus ended the words of Amulek, or this is all that I have written.

I should recognize wonderful things in other people and appreciate them.

This I Know: Patience

I will slowly discover the ways he wants me to do my calling.

TFHW: Doing My Calling

9-17-23
Agreed to accompany Dalton Castillo to the temple
Mentioned the temple to Iran
Asked who the EQ counselor over TFHW is... answer pending
Removed Br. Davie from TFH council group text
Accompanied Kitten to the Waukesha ward TFH council meeting
Played Cribbage
Sent email to Mark
Showed Gabe how to add a person to his tree on his phone
Asked Trevor to teach me how to prepare names for the temple

Friday, September 15, 2023

Daily Ponderings: That Which Was Good

Alma 11:21
And this Zeezrom began to question Amulek, saying: Will ye answer me a few questions which I shall ask you? Now Zeezrom was a man who was expert in the devices of the devil, that he might destroy that which was good; therefore, he said unto Amulek: Will ye answer the questions which I shall put unto you?

I should come to learn and embrace that which is good

Might Try Hemingway Sometime

"Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is."

Source: The Old Man and the Sea

This I Know: Peace

If I am struggling, He can reassure me that I am loved and fill me with His peace if I ask

TFHW: Birthday!

9-14-23
Celebrated my and Ryan's birthday breakfast
Took Joshua to school
Watched baking show
Thanked Patty for b-day card & family history notes

Thursday, September 14, 2023

Daily Ponderings: As Great As

Alma 11:11
And an amnor of silver was as great as two senums.

With His guidance, I can exchange my time for kindness and knowledge

This I Know: Roll With It

I know that the easiest way to make someone happy is to give them something I know they like.

TFHW: Daily Duties

9-13-23
Picked up Joshua from Seminary
Took Joshua to school
Dropped Truck off at Griswold's
Watched baking show

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Object of These Lawyers

Alma 10:32
Now the object of these lawyers was to get gain; and they got gain according to their employ.

I should choose spiritual progress as my object. He will help me attain it as I strive.

This I Know: TFHW

Temple and Family History work blesses people and connects lives.

TFHW: Doesn't Have to Be Long

9-12-23
Emailed Roy
Texted TFH Council
Short family walk

Tuesday, September 12, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Amulek Stretched Forth His Hand

Alma 10:25
But Amulek stretched forth his hand, and cried the mightier unto them, saying: O ye wicked and perverse generation, why hath Satan got such great hold upon your hearts? Why will ye yield yourselves unto him that he may have power over you, to blind your eyes, that ye will not understand the words which are spoken, according to their truth?

I should exert extra focus on communicating important messages

Daily Ponderings: By the Prayers of the Righteous

Alma 10:23
But it is by the prayers of the righteous that ye are spared; now therefore, if ye will cast out the righteous from among you then will not the Lord stay his hand; but in his fierce anger he will come out against you; then ye shall be smitten by famine, and by pestilence, and by the sword; and the time is soon at hand except ye repent.

Intercessory prayer has power, and I can use it to bless people's lives.

Daily Ponderings: Well Doth He Cry

Alma 10:21
Yea, well doth he cry, by the voice of his angels that: I will come down among my people, with equity and justice in my hands.

I should listen for His voice, and follow through on what I hear.

This I Know: Gracious

If I graciously help someone else get what they want, I will be blessed.

TFHW: A Nice Visit

9-11-23
Asked Patty for some birth and death dates
Held FHE
Visited Ryan at work

Monday, September 11, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Blessing According to the Words Spoken

Alma 10:11
For behold, he hath blessed mine house, he hath blessed me, and my women, and my children, and my father and my kinsfolk; yea, even all my kindred hath he blessed, and the blessing of the Lord hath rested upon us according to the words which he spake.

I should speak words to bless people's lives.

This I Know: Share The second kindest thing to do is to share something meaningful with someone. The kindest thing to do is to ask them to share something meaningful with me.

TFHW: So They Would Know

9-10-23
Discussed with Kitten Joshua's antipathy toward Seminary
Did tithing declaration
Sent Gary's letter excerpt to family

Sunday, September 10, 2023

Daily Ponderings: These Are the Words

Alma 10:1
Now these are the words which Amulek preached unto the people who were in the land of Ammonihah, saying:

I should listen to His words and decide what He's asking me to do

This I Know: Perspective

If I'm confused about something and take it to Him, He will help me see it in a clearer light.

TFHW: All Over the Place

9-9-23
Ate breakfast with family
Did cleanup service project with family
Went rummage shopping with family
Installed new dryer with family
Watched Onward

Saturday, September 9, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Began to Preach

Alma 9:34
And it came to pass that Amulek went and stood forth, and began to preach unto them also. And now the words of Amulek are not all written, nevertheless a part of his words are written in this book.

I should make sure I'm happy with the sermon my life is preaching.

This I Know: Persist

Satan will always try to push a sour mood on me and instill fear in me. I can call for help anytime.

TFHW: ...Of Champions

9-8-23
Family breakfast
Emailed Patty

Friday, September 8, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Voice of the Lord

Alma 9:21
Having been visited by the Spirit of God; having conversed with angels, and having been spoken unto by the voice of the Lord; and having the spirit of prophecy, and the spirit of revelation, and also many gifts, the gift of speaking with tongues, and the gift of preaching, and the gift of the Holy Ghost, and the gift of translation;

I should seek to Hear Him and do

Fix Procrastination

What is the two-minute version of the task I'm avoiding?

Prayers

Heavenly Father, please help my body relax so that I can go back to sleep, in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Satan depart. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Peace

Alert and refreshed at 5am

Thank you

This I Know: Power

He will give me the power to be positive if I ask and if I'm willing to give up the false, stagnating comfort of the adversary's litany

TFHW: Good Exercise

9-7-23
Ate breakfast Kitten made
Played Frisbee
Walked

Thursday, September 7, 2023

Daily Ponderings: His Matchless Power and His Mercy

Alma 9:11
Yea, and if it had not been for his matchless power, and his mercy, and his long-suffering towards us, we should unavoidably have been cut off from the face of the earth long before this period of time, and perhaps been consigned to a state of endless misery and woe.

He can help me make it through trials if I ask.

This I Know: Prayer

He will help me if I ask Him specifically in prayer

TFHW: Work & Play

9-6-23
Put away food in pantry
Played Sorry

Wednesday, September 6, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Power the Lord Had Given

Alma 8:32
And it came to pass that they went forth and began to preach and to prophesy unto the people, according to the spirit and power which the Lord had given them.

He can give me power to speak the truth if I ask

This I Know: Silence

He can help me keep my peace if I ask.

TFHW: Fire!

9-5-23
Sent checks to heirs
Texted TFH Council
emailed heirs that checks were sent
Ate breakfast with family

Tuesday, September 5, 2023

Daily Ponderings: The Word Came to Alma

Alma 8:29
And the word came to Alma, saying: Go; and also say unto my servant Amulek, go forth and prophesy unto this people, saying—Repent ye, for thus saith the Lord, except ye repent I will visit this people in mine anger; yea, and I will not turn my fierce anger away.

I should listen for the word to come to me and do it.

Daily Ponderings: And He Gave Thanks Unto God

Alma 8:22
And it came to pass that Alma ate bread and was filled; and he blessed Amulek and his house, and he gave thanks unto God.

I should be grateful for the things in my life.

Daily Ponderings: The Man Received Him Into His House

Alma 8:21
And it came to pass that the man received him into his house; and the man was called Amulek; and he brought forth bread and meat and set before Alma.

I should invite good things into my life. He can show me what to do with them.

This I Know: Counsel

When I am ready to receive counsel, He will send it my way.

TFHW: Ready, Aim...

9-4-23
Prepped checks & letter to heirs
Did FHE

Monday, September 4, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Thou Art Alma

Alma 8:11
Nevertheless, they hardened their hearts, saying unto him: Behold, we know that thou art Alma; and we know that thou art high priest over the church which thou hast established in many parts of the land, according to your tradition; and we are not of thy church, and we do not believe in such foolish traditions.

I know who I am and why I'm here. He will help me if I need strength to live accordingly

What "Love Everyone" Actually Means

Loving everyone is a theory.

What it looks like in practice is being kind to the person in front of me.

In principle, it's the willingness to be kind to the person in front of me.

That's what loving everyone actually means.

Patience

I am patient because I am immortal.

This I Know: Testimony

A testimony grows in the speaking of it

TFHW: Testifying of Truth

9-3-23
Emailed some heirs
Talked about TFHW in Testimony meeting
Asked bishop about the Castillos and the temple

Sunday, September 3, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Wrestling with God in Mighty Prayer

Alma 8:10
Nevertheless Alma labored much in the spirit, wrestling with God in mighty prayer, that he would pour out his Spirit upon the people who were in the city; that he would also grant that he might baptize them unto repentance.

I should try mighty prayer.

Daily Ponderings: From This Time Forth

Alma 7:27
And now, may the peace of God rest upon you, and upon your houses and lands, and upon your flocks and herds, and all that you possess, your women and your children, according to your faith and good works, from this time forth and forever. And thus I have spoken. Amen.

Even if things have been rough until now, I have the ability to turn things around in ANY given moment if I ask for His help.

This I Know: Dilemma

If I feel trapped in a dilemma, He can help me reframe it and find a way out.

TFHW: Drop a Line

9-2-23
Send out emails to the heirs confirming mailing addresses
Went to Goodwill
Watched Cars 3

Saturday, September 2, 2023

Daily Ponderings: Be Diligent, Ask for Help, Return Thanks

Alma 7:23
And now I would that ye should be humble, and be submissive and gentle; easy to be entreated; full of patience and long-suffering; being temperate in all things; being diligent in keeping the commandments of God at all times; asking for whatsoever things ye stand in need, both spiritual and temporal; always returning thanks unto God for whatsoever things ye do receive.

I should work to do His will. He will help me if I ask

Daily Ponderings: Ye Are in the Path

Alma 7:19
For I perceive that ye are in the paths of righteousness; I perceive that ye are in the path which leads to the kingdom of God; yea, I perceive that ye are making his paths straight.

I am walking a good road. I should ask for His help to stay on it.

Kind Grateful Credit

I should be kind, and grateful, and give myself credit.

This I Know: Help

He can help me if I ask

TFHW: Look How Shiny It Is!

9-1-23
Watched Cars 2
Cleaned the church

Friday, September 1, 2023

Daily Ponderings: By the Power of the Holy Ghost

Alma 7:10
And behold, he shall be born of Mary, at Jerusalem which is the land of our forefathers, she being a virgin, a precious and chosen vessel, who shall be overshadowed and conceive by the power of the Holy Ghost, and bring forth a son, yea, even the Son of God.

I can use the power of the Holy Ghost to change my life for the better

This I Know: Help

If I decide I want to do something, He will help me figure out how.

TFHW: All Day Event

8-31-23
Fixed van tail light
Had breakfast with family
Took Joshua to school
Made 20 pounds of raspberry jam
Oil change van
Played family cribbage