Benevolence is vicarious joy. The pleasure of it is imagining how good my kindness will make someone else feel, and letting that feeling of control over my existence energize me
Brolson's Blog
Who Are You Talking To?
Sunday, August 9, 2026
His Peace
Fear Is Not Required
Fear is not required
Fear is never required
Peace is often required
That's why peace is what He offers for the asking.
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
Sunday, August 2, 2026
Tuesday, June 30, 2026
The Apprentice
I am a child of God, but I am an adult child of God. The method is modeling, the goal is independence.
Tuesday, June 16, 2026
Being Sent
A suggestion in conference was to "say in prayer to Heavenly Father, 'here I am, send me.' Then listen."
I've always been afraid to do that, fearing that he would send me to Equatorial Guinea without purse or scrip, But when I listened, He told me that He is sending me where I am already going to be kind to someone who needs kindness, and that He would let me know who it was that needed it.
This... I can do.
Monday, June 15, 2026
Sunday, June 14, 2026
Thursday, May 7, 2026
Don't Negotiate with Terrorists
Endurance athlete David Dack on running (and life):
"No one tells you running is 10 percent cardio and 90 percent negotiating with the voice begging you to quit."
Note: substitute any good thing you do for "running".
Sunday, May 3, 2026
Mortal and Finite Love
The currency of love is time.
Being mortal and finite, it's not possible for me to love everyone.
Jesus walked by hundreds of people every day without stopping.
I am not expected to outdo the Savior.
We are not commanded to love everyone. We're commanded to love our neighbor.
My neighbor is the person in front of me. I don't need to go looking for him.
Proof of Learning
I haven't really learned something unless what I've learned changes me.
-Sr Bednarek
Thursday, April 23, 2026
Put Something Down
How Would the Savior Minister unto Me?
Slowly, with patience, without judgment, and filled with peace that fills me too.
Sunday, April 19, 2026
Murmuring
"Your murmurings are not against us, but against the Lord."
Exodus 16:8
He's never trying to hurt me, and doesn't deserve murmuring
Tuesday, April 7, 2026
Slow Peace
The key to peace is slowing down.
Normally I'm on edge and in a hurry.
Which doesn't invite peace. It doesn't work.
If what I'm doing doesn't work, I need to try something else. Anything else. Because this isn't working.
I'll try slowing down and see if that works.
Sunday, March 8, 2026
Feelings: Keep or Toss
All feelings are telling me something. After I recognize what a feeling means, I can choose to keep it or to focus on something else to bring up a feeling I'd prefer to experience. He will help me if I ask.
Saturday, March 7, 2026
Be Present Now; Invite Peace
I feel afraid a lot. I need to check for time travel. Am I projecting future disaster? Am I reliving something unchangeable, agonizing over wanted to go back and change? The answer is always: come back to the present and invite His peace.