Wednesday, November 30, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Be Obedient to the Commandments

1 Nephi 22:31
Wherefore, ye need not suppose that I and my father are the only ones that have testified, and also taught them. Wherefore, if ye shall be obedient to the commandments, and endure to the end, ye shall be saved at the last day. And thus it is. Amen.

I should be willing to do whatever inconvenient thing He asks when I ask Him for help to become more like Him. The first step will always be to seek His peace.

TFHW: I Was There

11-29-22
Attended Kitten's Zoom class
Fixed Kitten's rickrack tree at bedtime
Responed to Br. Berry's request to help a friend access Family Search

Tuesday, November 29, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Judgment in Righteousness

1 Nephi 22:21
And now I, Nephi, declare unto you, that this prophet of whom Moses spake was the Holy One of Israel; wherefore, he shall execute judgment in righteousness.

He will always give me good advice

The Key to Revelation

If I'm not getting an answer to my question, I need to figure out a better question to ask.

Be Still and Ponder

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"above and beyond my regular scripture study and prayer, I need to give the Holy Ghost the chance to communicate to me by being still and by pondering"

I need to find more time For quiet reflection, or to learn how to reflect amid chaos. And amid interruptions.

Right Now Blessings

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"don't procrastinate a recognition of your blessings in the moment, right now. Find joy in your journey and offer gratitude"

When I pause to find peace, I can also think of something to be happy about.

Tomorrow Trap

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"We become actively engaged in the pastime of conditioning ourselves to believe that happiness and achievement are always somewhere in the future. There is an attitude of tolerating today"

He can help me dismiss the feeling of "I don't deserve happiness today, and definitely not right now. Maybe tomorrow"

Joy, Gratitude, Beauty

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"Sometimes we procrastinate joy, gratitude, and the beauty of today."

I should let his peace fill me so that nothing prevents me from feeling joy and gratitude.

Continual Growth

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"My faith and confidence in the Savior increase as I place my faith and confidence in Him."

He will do more for me, as I ask Him to do increasingly more for me, to help me become more like Him

Ask, Then Act

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"But you must ask and then be willing to accept and act upon the answer you receive."

This is the key to all revelation

Rebuke the Wind

From Camille N. Johnson's January 11, 2022 "Bound Securely to the Savior":
"And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm."

I have this same power over the storms inside me

TFHW: Good Evening

11-28-22
Had FHE
Bought posterboard at Hobby Lobby
Put lights up in bedroom windows

Monday, November 28, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Make Bare His Arm

1 Nephi 22:11
Wherefore, the Lord God will proceed to make bare his arm in the eyes of all the nations, in bringing about his covenants and his gospel unto those who are of the house of Israel.

I should look for the blessings of His hand in my life and feel His peace

Faith vs. Gratitude

Faith is the willingness to act on an empowering belief in the face of an uncertain outcome

Gratitude is the willingness to act on an empowering belief in the face of a certain outcome

The empowering belief is "my life is good... because of you"

Law

If I follow eternal laws, it will give me power to do things no one else can do

Pride

Pride of love
Pride of accomplishment
Pride of arrogance

Only this last is a sin

TFHW: More Christmas

11-27-22
Helped Kitten teach TFHW to the missionaries
Put spotlight on Nativity

Sunday, November 27, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Thy Savior and Thy Redeemer

1 Nephi 21:26
And I will feed them that oppress thee with their own flesh; they shall be drunken with their own blood as with sweet wine; and all flesh shall know that I, the Lord, am thy Savior and thy Redeemer, the Mighty One of Jacob.

He has the power to help me if I ask

TFHW: En Espanol

11-26-22
Did initiatory at temple
Assembled bookcases
Took toybox to Sr. Peterson
Took toys to Goodwill
Put star light on lamp at end of driveway
Put lights on bow on hedge

Saturday, November 26, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Thy Enemy Shall Go Forth of Thee

1 Nephi 21:17
Thy children shall make haste against thy destroyers; and they that made thee waste shall go forth of thee.

If I ask for His help, I can disperse feelings of darkness, sadness, anger, and fear.

TFHW: Preparation Day

11-25-22
Prepared temple names
Texted TFH Council

Friday, November 25, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Say to the Prisoners: Go Forth

1 Nephi 21:9
That thou mayest say to the prisoners: Go forth; to them that sit in darkness: Show yourselves. They shall feed in the ways, and their pastures shall be in all high places.

I don't have to be stuck in darkness, sadness, anger, or fear. The prayer in my heart can help me move foraward with peace.

Darkness, sadness, anger, and fear don't come up full blown. They have precursors that trickle in beforehand. My goal is to act spiritually when I first notice the precursor. Keeping a prayer in my heart is my spiritual DEW line.

TFHW: Day of Days

11-24-22
Thanksgiving with family
Ordered phone for Joshua
Ordered phone case for Joshua
Ordered Verizon home internet for Kitten

Thursday, November 24, 2022

Daily Ponderings: No Peace Unto the Wicked

1 Nephi 20:22
And notwithstanding he hath done all this, and greater also, there is no peace, saith the Lord, unto the wicked.

There is peace unto me when I do what He asks

TFHW: Good Start

11-23-22
Woke up at 5 to get Kitten off to the temple
Helped Joshua with his homework

Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Make His Way Prosperous

1 Nephi 20:15
Also, saith the Lord; I the Lord, yea, I have spoken; yea, I have called him to declare, I have brought him, and he shall make his way prosperous.

As I strive to follow Him closely, He will prosper me.

Not As Bad As You Fear

From Kitten's covenant class:
"Sometimes what He wants me to do is a lot easier than what I think He wants me to do."

TFHW: Catching the Last Ones

11-22-22
Attended Kitten's final two covenant classes
Returned Kitten's stuff to Amazon
Looked into getting Joshua a phone
Bought spotting scope for Joshua

Tuesday, November 22, 2022

Daily Ponderings: From That Time Thine Ear Was Not Opened

1 Nephi 20:8
Yea, and thou heardest not; yea, thou knewest not; yea, from that time thine ear was not opened; for I knew that thou wouldst deal very treacherously, and wast called a transgressor from the womb.

I should keep my spiritual ears open and Hear Him

See Their Needs and Strengthen Them

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"I bless you to see the needs of those around you and strengthen those you love"

When given the choice between focusing on my pain or her pain, I should focus on hers.

Learn Better How to Draw Upon His Power

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"I bless you to... learn better how to draw upon His power"

No one can tell me how to do this except the Holy Ghost, because I have to figure out what words and images are already most powerful to me, and then find a way to connect the gospel to them.

Increase Your Faith in Jesus Christ

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"I bless you to increase your faith in Jesus Christ"

Make Him a more empowering belief, by believing that the more I become like Him, the happier my life will be, because I will spend less time being afraid and angry, and more time being peaceful and kind.

TFHW: Home With Family

11-21-22
Did FHE
Ordered phone for Ryan
Looked into getting phone for Joshua

Monday, November 21, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Hear Ye the Words of the Prophets

1 Nephi 19:24
Wherefore I spake unto them, saying: Hear ye the words of the prophet, ye who are a remnant of the house of Israel, a branch who have been broken off; hear ye the words of the prophet, which were written unto all the house of Israel, and liken them unto yourselves, that ye may have hope as well as your brethren from whom ye have been broken off; for after this manner has the prophet written.

I should study conference talks, not with my eyes, but with a more open spiritual ear to what He's trying to teach me.

Repent and Seek His Help

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"As you truly repent and seek His help, you can rise above this present precarious world."

Keep a prayer in my heart. Each time I do, it creates a thread of connection. These threads add together to become a mighty cable.

Access to His Higher Power

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"Those who live the higher laws of Jesus Christ have access to His higher power."

This is an empowering belief

Power that Strengthens

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"The reward for keeping covenants with God is heavenly power - power that strengthens us"

The ability to reframe what I'm going through. To transform the situation into something manageable.

TFHW: Coming of Age

11-20-22
Attended Kitten's temple presentation at the event for stake youth turning 12 next year.

Sunday, November 20, 2022

Access to Power

From Russell M. Nelson's October 2022 "Overcome the World and Find Rest"
"Each person who makes covenants... - and keeps them - has increased access to the power of Jesus Christ"
The power of Jesus Christ is the ability to always be in His most resourceful state.

This power changes my ability to exercise courage (ability to act in the face of anticipated pain)

Daily Ponderings: The Salvation of the Lord

1 Nephi 19:17
Yea, and all the earth shall see the salvation of the Lord, saith the prophet; every nation, kindred, tongue and people shall be blessed.

He can save me from whatever trouble I'm feeling by giving me His peace

TFHW: Sitting Far Apart

11-19-22
Did an endowment session at the temple
Shopped at IKEA
Took Joshua to youth activity

Saturday, November 19, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Loving Kindness

1 Nephi 19:9
And the world, because of their iniquity, shall judge him to be a thing of naught; wherefore they scourge him, and he suffereth it; and they smite him, and he suffereth it. Yea, they spit upon him, and he suffereth it, because of his loving kindness and his long-suffering towards the children of men.

I should be kind

TFHW: Make Memories

11-18-22
Texted TFH Council
Emailed Tom

Friday, November 18, 2022

Daily Ponderings: As We Journeyed in the Wilderness

1 Nephi 18:25
And it came to pass that we did find upon the land of promise, as we journeyed in the wilderness, that there were beasts in the forests of every kind, both the cow and the ox, and the ass and the horse, and the goat and the wild goat, and all manner of wild animals, which were for the use of men. And we did find all manner of ore, both of gold, and of silver, and of copper.

As I go through trials and difficult times, I will discover unexpected treasures. I should focus on these and be grateful for them.

TFHW: Make It Better

11-17-22
Improved Place Names

Thursday, November 17, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Said Many Things

1 Nephi 18:17
Now my father, Lehi, had said many things unto them, and also unto the sons of Ishmael; but, behold, they did breathe out much threatenings against anyone that should speak for me; and my parents being stricken in years, and having suffered much grief because of their children, they were brought down, yea, even upon their sick-beds.

I should listen to the things He says to me and do them

TFHW: Substitute

11-16-22
Helped Joshua with his schoolwork while Kitten was at the temple
Took Kitten shopping at Hobby Lobby
Texted Sarah

Wednesday, November 16, 2022

Daily Ponderings: By What Power They Had Been Brought Thither

1 Nephi 18:9
And after we had been driven forth before the wind for the space of many days, behold, my brethren and the sons of Ishmael and also their wives began to make themselves merry, insomuch that they began to dance, and to sing, and to speak with much rudeness, yea, even that they did forget by what power they had been brought thither; yea, they were lifted up unto exceeding rudeness.

I should remember the source of the power that brought me this far and let Him help me keep moving forward.

Through His Eyes

Peace comes from seeing the long view, instead of only what's right in front of me and what's bothering me.

TFHW: Front and Center

11-15-22
Helped Kitten practice reciting the list of the blessings of temple and family history work
Attended Kitten's Covenant class twice
Texted Ryan at Kitten's behest. Also asked how his day was going

Tuesday, November 15, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Lord Is With Thee

1 Nephi 17:55
And now, they said: We know of a surety that the Lord is with thee, for we know that it is the power of the Lord that has shaken us. And they fell down before me, and were about to worship me, but I would not suffer them, saying: I am thy brother, yea, even thy younger brother; wherefore, worship the Lord thy God, and honor thy father and thy mother, that thy days may be long in the land which the Lord thy God shall give thee.

Whether progress is slow or fast, He is with me and can give me the peace and power I need to keep moving forward.

TFHW: Pick Up and Delivery

11-14-22
Fetched 7 boxes from Hartland for Kitten
Put squirrel cone on pole feeder
Made dinner

Monday, November 14, 2022

Daily Ponderings: He Raiseth Up

1 Nephi 17:37
And he raiseth up a righteous nation, and destroyeth the nations of the wicked.

I can be raised up to higher peace, power, and strength if I ask for His help

EQ Lesson Goal

From L. Tom Perry's October 1981 "When Ye Are Prepared, Ye Shall Not Fear"
"It is not a time for speculation regarding the mysteries of the world. It is a time of basic, practical, how-to instruction, for which we can find application in our lives. The lessons should teach us how we can become better husbands, fathers, and members of quorums"

Communication Tips

Communication - Solve a Problem, Feel Good

Think of communication less as a megaphone and more as a gift to your audience. Does it help them solve a problem? Does it make them feel good about themselves or see themselves as they want to be seen? Does it connect to how they see the world and provide solutions that are actionable? If we want people to engage and take action, we have to connect to what they care about and how they see themselves.

Call to Action - Specific, Valued, Know How to Do

Review your calls to action. Are you asking communities to do something specific that they value, that will connect them to the cause, and that they know how to do?

Fail = Don't Care or Don't Know

People fail to act not because they do not have enough information, but because they don’t care or they don’t know what to do. If you start with this perspective as the foundation for your work, you can craft a strategy that helps people care and tells them exactly what you want them to do.

Story - Characters; Beginning, Middle, End; Plot, Conflict, Resolution

Stories have characters; a beginning, middle, and end; plot, conflict, and resolution. If you do not include these elements, you are not telling a story.

TFHW: Honor the Vet

11-13-22
Emailed siblings about Gary
Asked EQ for TFH experiences

Sunday, November 13, 2022

Daily Ponderings: My Sorrow Gladdens His Heart

1 Nephi 17:19
And now it came to pass that I, Nephi, was exceedingly sorrowful because of the hardness of their hearts; and now when they saw that I began to be sorrowful they were glad in their hearts, insomuch that they did rejoice over me, saying: We knew that ye could not construct a ship, for we knew that ye were lacking in judgment; wherefore, thou canst not accomplish so great a work.

If I'm feeling sorrowful, it brings mirth to one who does not love me and does not have my best interests at heart. I should seek strength from the One who loves me.

TFHW: To the House of the Lord

11-12-22
Did sealings at the temple
Kitten got set apart as a temple worker
Emailed siblings about Gary

Saturday, November 12, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Voice of the Lord

1 Nephi 16:39
And it came to pass that the Lord was with us, yea, even the voice of the Lord came and did speak many words unto them, and did chasten them exceedingly; and after they were chastened by the voice of the Lord they did turn away their anger, and did repent of their sins, insomuch that the Lord did bless us again with food, that we did not perish.

I should strive to hear Him and do as He says

TFHW: Feliz Cumpleaños!

11-11-22
Celebrated Kitten's birthday
Got names ready for the temple

Friday, November 11, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Beheld the Things Which Were Written

1 Nephi 16:27
And it came to pass that when my father beheld the things which were written upon the ball, he did fear and tremble exceedingly, and also my brethren and the sons of Ishmael and our wives.

I should listen to what He tells me through the scriptures.

TFHW: Attendance

11-10-22
Prepared for Kitten's birthday
Went to Kitten's meeting with the Mission President about TFHW

Thursday, November 10, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Keeping in the Most Fertile Parts of the Wilderness

1 Nephi 16:14
And it came to pass that we did take our bows and our arrows, and go forth into the wilderness to slay food for our families; and after we had slain food for our families we did return again to our families in the wilderness, to the place of Shazer. And we did go forth again in the wilderness, following the same direction, keeping in the most fertile parts of the wilderness, which were in the borders near the Red Sea.

I should follow His directions so that I can stay in the good places.

TFHW: Taxi!

11-9-22
Picked Kitten & Joshua up at O'Hare airport

Wednesday, November 9, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Gifts of God

1 Nephi 15:36
Wherefore, the wicked are rejected from the righteous, and also from that tree of life, whose fruit is most precious and most desirable above all other fruits; yea, and it is the greatest of all the gifts of God. And thus I spake unto my brethren. Amen.

I should be aware of and grateful for the gifts He has given me.

TFHW: Quick Note

11-8-22
Texted Derrick
Texted Sarah about reading her book
Emailed Tom
Updated Aunt Frances to include Uncle Henry

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Did Exhort Them

1 Nephi 15:25
Wherefore, I, Nephi, did exhort them to give heed unto the word of the Lord; yea, I did exhort them with all the energies of my soul, and with all the faculty which I possessed, that they would give heed to the word of God and remember to keep his commandments always in all things.

I can encourage others

TFHW: In Person

11-7-22
Visited Tom

Monday, November 7, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Then Shall They Know

1 Nephi 15:14
And at that day shall the remnant of our seed know that they are of the house of Israel, and that they are the covenant people of the Lord; and then shall they know and come to the knowledge of their forefathers, and also to the knowledge of the gospel of their Redeemer, which was ministered unto their fathers by him; wherefore, they shall come to the knowledge of their Redeemer and the very points of his doctrine, that they may know how to come unto him and be saved.

I can know what to say and do if I ask Him and listen

Placing Limits, Lifting Limits

From Loren C. Dunn's April 1981 "Building Bridges to Faith"
"We seem to limit the ability of the Lord to help us in every aspect of our lives"
If there's a limit to the help He can give me, it's because I put the limit there. I can also take the limit off.

TFHW: Report!

11-6-22
Talked to Ward Council: Iran, Gino, missionaries, temple prayer roll on app, asked them to look at blessings on blessings card and think of which one they'd like more of.
Bore testimony on the special joy of doing work for those you've met and loved in life.

Sunday, November 6, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Thing Which Our Father Meaneth

1 Nephi 15:13
And now, the thing which our father meaneth concerning the grafting in of the natural branches through the fulness of the Gentiles, is, that in the latter days, when our seed shall have dwindled in unbelief, yea, for the space of many years, and many generations after the Messiah shall be manifested in body unto the children of men, then shall the fulness of the gospel of the Messiah come unto the Gentiles, and from the Gentiles unto the remnant of our seed

I can ask to know what lesson the scriptures are trying to teach me.

It's the Verbs

When reading inscrutable scripture, I should notice the verbs, and what they make me think of.

We Love That to Which We Give Time

From Marvin J. Ashton's April 1981 "We Serve That Which We Love"
"We must constantly emphasize the truth that we love that to which we give time, whether it be the gospel, God, or gold."

Love means spending time, listening, and speaking sincere praise

TFHW: Happy Veterans Day

11-5-22
Emailed Patty
Called Gary, asked about his Army service; sent him book about Pr'Line Mountain

Saturday, November 5, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Thus It Is

1 Nephi 14:30
And now I make an end of speaking concerning the things which I saw while I was carried away in the Spirit; and if all the things which I saw are not written, the things which I have written are true. And thus it is. Amen.

I should accept and embrace the truth. All truth. The embracing is even more important when it's hard.

TFHW: Long One

11-4-22
Texted Sarah
Texted Orin

Friday, November 4, 2022

Daily Ponderings: He Shall See and Write

1 Nephi 13:21
Behold, he shall see and write the remainder of these things; yea, and also many things which have been.

I should see what He has show me and write it down

TFHW: Reach Out

11-3-22
Emailed Aunt Marion
Emailed Patty
Tried texting Orin
Tried texting Derrick

Thursday, November 3, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Had Dominion

1 Nephi 14:11
And it came to pass that I looked and beheld the whore of all the earth, and she sat upon many waters; and she had dominion over all the earth, among all nations, kindreds, tongues, and people.

Who has dominion over me? I should let it be Him so that I can enjoy the full power of His kingdom.

TFHW: Sticky Situation

11-2-22
Emailed Tom about rusty license plate screw

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

Daily Ponderings: He Shall Manifest Himself

1 Nephi 13:42
And the time cometh that he shall manifest himself unto all nations, both unto the Jews and also unto the Gentiles; and after he has manifested himself unto the Jews and also unto the Gentiles, then he shall manifest himself unto the Gentiles and also unto the Jews, and the last shall be first, and the first shall be last.

I should watch for manifestations of Him

TFHW: Leaving on a Jet Plane

11-1-22
Help Kitten and Joshua pack for their flight to visit Nikelle
Took Kitten and Joshua to the airport
Emailed Patty, Roy, John, & Tom about Grandma Olson
Emailed Roy & Michael about rusty license plate screw
Obtained Cousin Orin Schroeder's address and phone number

Tuesday, November 1, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Gone Forth Out of Captivity

1 Nephi 13:29
And after these plain and precious things were taken away it goeth forth unto all the nations of the Gentiles; and after it goeth forth unto all the nations of the Gentiles, yea, even across the many waters which thou hast seen with the Gentiles which have gone forth out of captivity, thou seest—because of the many plain and precious things which have been taken out of the book, which were plain unto the understanding of the children of men, according to the plainness which is in the Lamb of God—because of these things which are taken away out of the gospel of the Lamb, an exceedingly great many do stumble, yea, insomuch that Satan hath great power over them.

I should ask for His help so that I can go forth out of captivity

TFHW: The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

10-31-22
Handed out Halloween candy, in costume, with family