Monday, October 31, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Like Unto My People

1 Nephi 13:15
And I beheld the Spirit of the Lord, that it was upon the Gentiles, and they did prosper and obtain the land for their inheritance; and I beheld that they were white, and exceedingly fair and beautiful, like unto my people before they were slain.

I get to choose who "my people" are.

TFHW: Inviting Is Winning

10-30-22
Invited Evan Wheeler to attend the missionaries' TFHW training - he couldn't make it because Garrett was getting set apart.
Attended missionaries' TFHW training
Drove around with family looking at Halloween decorations
Bishop told me he heard I took Iran to the temple

Sunday, October 30, 2022

Daily Ponderings: In Unbelief They Became

1 Nephi 12:23
And it came to pass that I beheld, after they had dwindled in unbelief they became a dark, and loathsome, and a filthy people, full of idleness and all manner of abominations.

By strengthening my belief every day, I can become more like Him

TFHW: New Guy

10-29-22
Did baptisms with Iran
Went birding at Greenfield Park and Menomonee Park

Saturday, October 29, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Looked and Beheld the People

1 Nephi 12:15
And it came to pass that I looked and beheld the people of my seed gathered together in multitudes against the seed of my brethren; and they were gathered together to battle.

I should try to really see the people I meet

TFHW: Cake Walk

10-28-22
Prepared for Trunk or Treat

Friday, October 28, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Spake Unto Me

1 Nephi 12:8
And the angel spake unto me, saying: Behold the twelve disciples of the Lamb, who are chosen to minister unto thy seed.

I should listen carefully for His guidance

TFHW: Watching

10-27-22
Watched Joshua while Kitten helped a friend in Madison
Got new hotspot

Thursday, October 27, 2022

Kindness: Always Right

Kindness is always the right way to treat others and myself

Peace: Always Right

Peace is always the right way to feel

Daily Ponderings: Spake Unto Me Again

1 Nephi 11:36
And it came to pass that I saw and bear record, that the great and spacious building was the pride of the world; and it fell, and the fall thereof was exceedingly great. And the angel of the Lord spake unto me again, saying: Thus shall be the destruction of all nations, kindreds, tongues, and people, that shall fight against the twelve apostles of the Lamb.

When He speaks, I will listen and do so that I can get the help I need.

TFHW: It's Better Now

10-26-22
Improved place names Gave blessings to Kitten and Joshua

Wednesday, October 26, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Love of God

1 Nephi 11:25
And it came to pass that I beheld that the rod of iron, which my father had seen, was the word of God, which led to the fountain of living waters, or to the tree of life; which waters are a representation of the love of God; and I also beheld that the tree of life was a representation of the love of God.

How do I know God loves me?

What's the evidence?

Benevolent universe?

TFHW: Being There

10-25-22
Attended Kitten's Covenant class twice
Made cardboard doors for Trunk or Treat

Tuesday, October 25, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Looked and Beheld

1 Nephi 11:13
And it came to pass that I looked and beheld the great city of Jerusalem, and also other cities. And I beheld the city of Nazareth; and in the city of Nazareth I beheld a virgin, and she was exceedingly fair and white.

I should look and behold the things He is trying to show me.

TFHW: All in the Family

10-24-22
Held FHE

Monday, October 24, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Should Speak These Things

1 Nephi 10:22
And the Holy Ghost giveth authority that I should speak these things, and deny them not.

I should follow His promptings to speak what He would have me say.

Not Angry

My reaction to frustration should be "huh... that was weird..."

I should be puzzled, not angry

TFHW: Spread the Word

10-23-22
Helped Kitten teach the YSA sister missionaries about TFHW
Asked Evan about the app
Had the idea to ask Evan to attend a missionary training on TFHW

Sunday, October 23, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Have Written

1 Nephi 10:15
And after this manner of language did my father prophesy and speak unto my brethren, and also many more things which I do not write in this book; for I have written as many of them as were expedient for me in mine other book.

I should write good ideas when they come

Peace in Anger, Kind to Myself

When I'm angry, I'm not being kind to myself. When I feel anger, I should reach out in sympathy to myself. With kindness and understanding. Just like I do with other people. I ask "how do you feel?" Then listen as tbey tell me the truth of what's going on inside. It doesn't mean it's true, it just means it's really happening. Once it can be accepted, it can be changed.

When I'm angry, I need to be kind to me.

I'll know I did it right when I can feel peace.

TFHW: The Temple Is a Holy Place

10-22-22
Did sealings at the Temple
Went shopping at Penzey's, Aldi, Pick n' Save, Farm & Fleet
Birding at Lion's Den Nature Preserve
Installed pole bird feeder
Texted Roger a pic

Saturday, October 22, 2022

TFHW: It's Night?

10-21-22
Attended Seminary with Kitten teaching
Texted TFH Council after adding Evan

Daily Ponderings: Much Spake My Father

1 Nephi 10:8
Yea, even he should go forth and cry in the wilderness: Prepare ye the way of the Lord, and make his paths straight; for there standeth one among you whom ye know not; and he is mightier than I, whose shoe’s latchet I am not worthy to unloose. And much spake my father concerning this thing.

I should listen to the things my Father tells me. I know I should seek peace in times of all trials.

Friday, October 21, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Accomplish All

1 Nephi 9:6
But the Lord knoweth all things from the beginning; wherefore, he prepareth a way to accomplish all his works among the children of men; for behold, he hath all power unto the fulfilling of all his words. And thus it is. Amen.

If I seek and find His peace, I can accomplish all that I need to do, and all that He asks

TFHW: Come and Learn

10-20-22
Attended Institute with Kitten teaching

Thursday, October 20, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Make These Plates

1 Nephi 9:5
Wherefore, the Lord hath commanded me to make these plates for a wise purpose in him, which purpose I know not.

The writing I do every day is my path to peace.

Can't Argue Feelings

Feelings are not subject to reason. They're only subject to other feelings. The only way to get rid of a negative feeling is to overwhelm it with a stronger, positive one. That is why fear can only be conquered by love.

TFHW: Come Along

10-19-22
Invited Iran to do baptisms

Wednesday, October 19, 2022

Daily Ponderings: My People

1 Nephi 9:3
Nevertheless, I have received a commandment of the Lord that I should make these plates, for the special purpose that there should be an account engraven of the ministry of my people.

My most important calling is to care for my people. He will give me the peace and power to do that if I ask.

From Peace to Meekness

Suffering is required to know meekness

Suffering is required to learn how to keep my power under control

My mortal body is subject to a lot of trials, but I can choose not to view them as trials, and to feel peace throughout.

I don't need to suffer to come closer to Him. I can choose to connect to Him by seeking to feel His peace in all circumstances.

Seeking His peace will also let me keep my power under control.

TFHW: Two Sessions

10-18-22
Attended Kitten's covenant class, twice
Helped repair the Monster's Inc. doors going to the flagpole

Tuesday, October 18, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Keep the Commandments

1 Nephi 8:38
And after he had preached unto them, and also prophesied unto them of many things, he bade them to keep the commandments of the Lord; and he did cease speaking unto them.

I should feel His peace and be kind to myself and others

TFHW: Too Early

10-17-22
Fixed Halloween decorations in the SNOW Held FHE
Scheduled sealings at the temple
Scheduled baptism at the temple

Monday, October 17, 2022

Story - Characters; Beginning, Middle, End; Plot, Conflict, Resolution

Stories have characters; a beginning, middle, and end; plot, conflict, and resolution. If you do not include these elements, you are not telling a story.

Fail = Don't Care or Don't Know

People fail to act not because they do not have enough information, but because they don’t care or they don’t know what to do. If you start with this perspective as the foundation for your work, you can craft a strategy that helps people care and tells them exactly what you want them to do.

Call to Action - Specific, Valued, Know How to Do

Review your calls to action. Are you asking communities to do something specific that they value, that will connect them to the cause, and that they know how to do?

Communication - Solve a Problem, Feel Good

Think of communication less as a megaphone and more as a gift to your audience. Does it help them solve a problem? Does it make them feel good about themselves or see themselves as they want to be seen? Does it connect to how they see the world and provide solutions that are actionable? If we want people to engage and take action, we have to connect to what they care about and how they see themselves.

Daily Ponderings: They Had Partaken

1 Nephi 8:25
And after they had partaken of the fruit of the tree they did cast their eyes about as if they were ashamed.

I should seek to partake of His peace and goodness

TFHW: Getting Together

10-16-22
Talked to Evan Wheeler about being on TFH Council Texted Sarah

Sunday, October 16, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Discover My Family

1 Nephi 8:13
And as I cast my eyes round about, that perhaps I might discover my family also, I beheld a river of water; and it ran along, and it was near the tree of which I was partaking the fruit.

I should make an effort to connect with my family

TFHW: Being There

10-15-22
Did endowments at the temple

Saturday, October 15, 2022

Daily Ponderings: They Did Give Thanks

1 Nephi 7:22
And it came to pass that we did come down unto the tent of our father. And after I and my brethren and all the house of Ishmael had come down unto the tent of my father, they did give thanks unto the Lord their God; and they did offer sacrifice and burnt offerings unto him.

I should remember to be grateful for the things I have

TFHW: Connection

10-14-22
Texted TFH Council
Read and discussed Kitten's email to Ram Singh

Friday, October 14, 2022

Daily Ponderings: The Spirit of the Lord Constraineth Me

1 Nephi 7:15
Now behold, I say unto you that if ye will return unto Jerusalem ye shall also perish with them. And now, if ye have choice, go up to the land, and remember the words which I speak unto you, that if ye go ye will also perish; for thus the Spirit of the Lord constraineth me that I should speak.

I should feel the Spirit and obey His promptings

TFHW: Step One

10-13-22
Improved place names
Read to family about Sikhism

Thursday, October 13, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Set an Example

1 Nephi 7:8
And now I, Nephi, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, therefore I spake unto them, saying, yea, even unto Laman and unto Lemuel: Behold ye are mine elder brethren, and how is it that ye are so hard in your hearts, and so blind in your minds, that ye have need that I, your younger brother, should speak unto you, yea, and set an example for you?

I should be an example after His example

TFHW: This Is New

10-12-22
Attended Sikh Temple with Kitten
Texted Iran about getting a Family Search account
Texted Sarah about surviving storm
Texted Mary Jo Ruka about stake temple day

Wednesday, October 12, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Shall Give Commandment

1 Nephi 6:6
Wherefore, I shall give commandment unto my seed, that they shall not occupy these plates with things which are not of worth unto the children of men.

I am in charge of my spiritual existence, and I shall give command to myself to choose the peace that will bring me joy

TFHW: Long Talk

10-11-22
Had uncomfortable relationship talk with Kitten
Attended Kitten's covenant class

Tuesday, October 11, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Pleasing Unto God

1 Nephi 6:5
Wherefore, the things which are pleasing unto the world I do not write, but the things which are pleasing unto God and unto those who are not of the world.

To be like Him, I need to find pleasing the things that are pleasing unto Him

TFHW: Old Normal

10-10-22
Did FHE

Monday, October 10, 2022

Historical Jesus

I don't believe in Jesus because of the weight of the historical record. I believe in Jesus because, when I read the scriptures, the Holy Ghost teaches me that the scriptures are true.

Daily Ponderings: Write of the Things of God

1 Nephi 6:3
And it mattereth not to me that I am particular to give a full account of all the things of my father, for they cannot be written upon these plates, for I desire the room that I may write of the things of God.

I should listen to Him and write down the things He tells me.

TFHW: When You Invite, You Win

10-9-22
Invited Iran to do baptisms with us
Talked to Ward Council about TFHW

Sunday, October 9, 2022

TFHW: Tiny Temple

10-8-22
Visited St. Paul temple
Drove home

Saturday, October 8, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Towards the Land of Promise

1 Nephi 5:22
Wherefore, it was wisdom in the Lord that we should carry them with us, as we journeyed in the wilderness towards the land of promise.

I should set my eyes on HIm and follow to where He is

TFHW: Swan Song

10-7-22
Drove around Krex Meadows all day, stargazed at night

Friday, October 7, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Kept the Records

1 Nephi 5:16
And thus my father, Lehi, did discover the genealogy of his fathers. And Laban also was a descendant of Joseph, wherefore he and his fathers had kept the records.

I should always remember what's most important

TFHW: Zootopia

10-6-22
Attended Kitten's Seminary class
Drove to Madison Zoo and Krex Meadows

Thursday, October 6, 2022

Daily Ponderings: They Were Also Led

1 Nephi 5:15
And they were also led out of captivity and out of the land of Egypt, by that same God who had preserved them.

I should seek His peace so that I can be led

TFHW: Rise and Shine

10-5-22
Attended Kitten's Seminary class

Wednesday, October 5, 2022

Daily Ponderings: I Know of a Surety

1 Nephi 5:8
And she spake, saying: Now I know of a surety that the Lord hath commanded my husband to flee into the wilderness; yea, and I also know of a surety that the Lord hath protected my sons, and delivered them out of the hands of Laban, and given them power whereby they could accomplish the thing which the Lord hath commanded them. And after this manner of language did she speak.

I can know of a surety the power His peace can bring into my life

Blessings of Peace

(found elsewhere and moderately paraphrased)
When I am peaceful, I am able to think clearly and control negative emotions. I can make wise decisions for my life thanks to having a stable mind.

In peace, my mind does not jump from thought to thought. I can choose which thoughts to think about and which to reject.
A peaceful mind is like a calm sea. Restless thoughts, which are like high waves, prevent me from focusing or thinking clearly. Emotional control and clarity of thought are the blessings of peace

Higher Law

Go from what to decide to how to decide

I learn the law of mercy, since I already know the law of justice

I am the salt of the earth, and, like salt, I can improve everything around me

TFHW: I'm Here

10-4-22
Attended Kitten's covenant class twice

Monday, October 3, 2022

Daily Ponderings: Follow Me

1 Nephi 4:25
And I also bade him that he should follow me.

I should think about what He would do, find His peace, and act accordingly.

Cannot Be Refuted

From Gordon B. Hinckley's October 1981 "Faith: The Essence of True Religion"
"Theology may be argued over, but personal testimony, coupled with performance, cannot be refuted"
I should bear my testimony in word and deed.

TFHW: Still Hearing Him

10-2-22
Watched General Conference with family
Texted Sarah
Prayed while Kitten talked to her family about Ryan
Indexed

Holding Back Nothing

From Joseph W Sitati, October 2022
"We should love others as we love ourselves - holding back nothing."

Do I hold back nothing when it comes to loving myself?

Sunday, October 2, 2022

Daily Ponderings: His Righteous Purposes

1 Nephi 4:13
Behold the Lord slayeth the wicked to bring forth his righteous purposes. It is better that one man should perish than that a nation should dwindle and perish in unbelief.

I should seek to know His righteous purposes. Before I seek, I need to find His peace

TFHW: Hearing Him

10-1-22
Watched General Conference with family
Emailed Tom & Roy

Saturday, October 1, 2022

Daily Ponderings: How Is It Possible

1 Nephi 3:31
And after the angel had departed, Laman and Lemuel again began to murmur, saying: How is it possible that the Lord will deliver Laban into our hands? Behold, he is a mighty man, and he can command fifty, yea, even he can slay fifty; then why not us?

Asking how the Lord can do something isn't helpful. Asking how I can do something is. And the answer is always "by first connecting with His peace"

TFHW: To Please

9-30-22
Skipped exercise to go buy homeopathic medicine for Kitten
Texted TFH council
Emailed Roy