What to Write in My Heart

Things written in our hearts - the rules for becoming more like Him (All are "the rules for becoming like Him"
[The rule is: be kind - to God, myself, and others])[we become like Him when we have those not only memorized, but internalized the rules. Like how my fingers know how to type with no hesitation between my brain and keyboard]

[every upset is a rules violation][I already have rules for being happy. Are they useful? Can I find better ones? If so, how can I install them?]