I am to love all of reality and existence as it is right now. I can plan to change it, but I can't make my love conditional upon that change coming to pass.
Love of what is as it is, is loving God.
A handshake is how Men of Honor show respect one another.
It should be brief, warm, and dignified.
The grip should be firm, but not painful. The message is "this strong hand would be honored to serve alongside you."
In shaking hands with a woman, the message is "this strong hand would be honored to protect you".